By invitation only · 18+
Some doors you don't find. You get shown the way.
SecretHeat is a private dating club for adults. No shop window, no prying eyes. Whoever is inside knows why.
Now opening: everything is free for the first members.
Nobody can tell
Nothing on your phone gives it away. What happens inside stays inside.
No fake profiles
Everyone is verified before they get in: proof of 18+ and a live check. No bots, no fake accounts.
No ads
No advertising and no trackers. Your data is never sold.
You hold the key
You decide what you show, and to whom. And you can erase it all.
Why SecretHeat
Unlike any other dating app
Most dating apps want as many people as possible, as visible as possible. We do the opposite.
With most appsAn eye-catching icon on your phone, notifications with names and messages.
With SecretHeatNobody can tell you are a member. An inconspicuous entrance, notifications without content and a panic button.
With most appsAnyone can sign up, fake profiles and bots included.
With SecretHeatBy invitation only, in small groups. Everyone proves they are 18+, and a live check shows who is real.
With most appsYour photos are open to everyone and easily copied.
With SecretHeatYou hand out the key to your private photos, and take it back whenever you like. Copying is blocked and a watermark covers them.
With most appsChoosing between a tidy dating app or an explicit sex site.
With SecretHeatBoth in one club. You switch Afterdark on yourself, and only those who have it on too see that side of you.
With most appsYou only find out after the date whether someone can be trusted.
With SecretHeatAfter a date, members give each other stars and compliments. So you see beforehand how others experienced someone.
With most appsYour data is the business model: ads and trackers.
With SecretHeatNo ads, no trackers. Your email address is stored encrypted in the EU, and you erase everything with one button.
With most appsMen and women pay different prices, and cancelling is a hunt.
With SecretHeatGetting in is free, everyone pays the same and you cancel with one click. Your statement never says SecretHeat.
The door
How you get in
- I
Knock
Leave your email address. No name, no photo, no profile.
- II
The discreet invitation
As soon as there is room, you get a discreet, personal invitation. Nothing about it gives away what it is for. Only those who have one find the entrance.
- III
Show you are 18+
With the EU age app, a selfie or your ID. We only keep that it checked out, never the photo or the ID.
- IV
Step inside
Pick a nickname and your own PIN. The door closes softly behind you.
Behind the door
What you find inside
Everything a good dating app has, made for people who know what they want and would rather keep it to themselves.
Discover
Who suits you, close by or further away. As an overview, or one at a time.
Match and talk
Like each other and you can talk right away. Without a match works too: one message, and they decide.
Meet now
Feel like seeing someone tonight? Switch it on for a few hours. Then it switches itself off again.
Afterdark
The uncensored side of the club. Only for those who switch it on, and only visible to others who have it on too.
Desires and limits
Say what you are looking for and where your limits are. Limits always count in who you get to see.
We met
After a date you give each other stars and a compliment. So you can see who is trustworthy.
Truly verified
A short live check shows you are real. Those who did it get a mark on their profile.
Your mood
Choose the colours of your club: burgundy and gold, midnight and neon, or plum and rose gold.
Discreet down to the details
Built not to be noticed
A hidden door is only worth something if nobody sees it. That is why discretion is not an extra here, but the foundation.
An inconspicuous entrance
No eye-catching icon, no telling name. Nothing stands out on your phone or in your history.
The panic button
Someone walking up? One tap or one key and you are somewhere else. Coming back takes your PIN.
Silent notifications
A notification never names a person or a message. Whoever looks over your shoulder sees nothing.
Only you get in
PIN, strong password or a passkey with your fingerprint. See where you are logged in and lock everything with one button.
Screen protection
No copying or printing, everything blurs when you click away, and every photo carries a watermark.
Private photos
A public album for everyone, a private album only for those you give a key. You can always take it back.
Neutral statement
Your bank statement never says SecretHeat. The payment provider gets no name and no profile from us.
Your data, your call
Your email address is stored encrypted on servers in the EU. Download everything we have on you, or erase it.
House rules
Whoever is inside keeps to these
- I
Adults only
Everyone is 18+, and we really check.
- II
Yes means yes
Everything happens with mutual consent. No is a complete answer.
- III
What happens inside stays inside
No names, no screenshots, no telling.
- IV
Everyone is welcome
Whoever you are and whoever you are looking for. Respect is the price of entry.
You can always block and report. Real people look at every report, and whoever breaks the rules is out.
Membership
Getting in is free
SecretHeat Privé adds a few things. Everyone pays the same, whoever you are or are looking for.
During the opening everything is free for everyone, SecretHeat Privé included. If that changes, you will hear well in advance. Nothing is ever charged unless you choose it yourself.
Free
€0forever
- Profile, photos and Afterdark
- Like up to 25 people a day
- Match and chat without limits with your matches
- 10 messages a day without a match
- Switch on Meet now
- Block and report
SecretHeat Privé
€9.95per month · opening price
Or €24.95 for 3 months, €59.95 for a year.
Everything in free, plus:
- Unlimited likes and messages without a match
- See who likes you, and who viewed you
- Filters: online now, meet now and desires
- Travel mode: be findable in another city ahead of time
- Read receipts
- Incognito or hidden: browse without a trace
Founder price: start a monthly subscription at the opening price and you keep that price. Even when it goes up later.
Cancel monthly with one click. 3 and 12 months end by themselves. Safety is always free.
Questions
What you might be wondering
Why by invitation only?
It keeps the club small, real and safe. New members come in small groups, so we can check everyone properly.
Can anyone tell from my phone that I am a member?
No. The entrance does not stand out, notifications name no one, and the panic button gets you out in one tap. Your PIN keeps others out.
Is it really free?
Yes. Getting in is and stays free. During the opening even SecretHeat Privé is free. Later Privé costs €9.95 a month, and whoever starts a monthly subscription then keeps that price.
What appears on my bank statement?
A neutral description, never SecretHeat. The payment provider gets no name, email address or profile from us.
Are there fake profiles?
No. Nobody just walks in: everyone gets an invitation, proves they are 18+ and shows they are real with a short live check. If something is off, we step in. And after a date you see stars and compliments from others.
Are there ads?
No. No advertising, no trackers, and we never sell your data. SecretHeat lives off its members, not off your data.
What happens to my photos?
You choose who sees what: public, private or only in Afterdark. Nudity never just shows up, only for those who switched Afterdark on themselves.
Can I erase everything?
Yes. You can download all your data and erase your account with everything on it. Gone is gone.
